Broken Clutches and Cheap Motels (The Perry Oklahoma Experience)

Kyle, one of my mega-cool cousins who lives in Houston Texas, told me that I should go and visit him sometime while I was at Hesston because it is much close to him than Ohio. So I took him up on this offer over Easter break. The drive is still a good 10 hour drive so I invited Nathaniel to come along (Kyle was excited to be the first in our Gugel generation to meet Nathaniel). We headed out Thursday afternoon and made it 2-2.5 hours south of here and had to exit off of I-35 because of the wild fires in Oklahoma. We stopped at the gas station to figure out new directions and then continued on down the highway that was now trying to contain all of I-35 traffic. We shifted into 3rd gear to discover that the car would not speed up anymore, it acted as if someone was revving the engine while it was in neutral. We pulled off onto the shoulder, waited a bit and tried again. A pick-up truck slowed to let us in; however, we could not get past 2nd gear so we pulled back off to try to figure this out.

The truck pulled in front of us and a car pulled in behind us. Soon a police officer came to the door and said "were you a part of the accident?" We were uber confused and replied that we were just having car problems. Turns out that the truck that was trying to let us into traffic was rear-ended by the car right behind him. His truck was okay, but the car hit the hitch and was going to need a new radiator.

So the tow truck came and picked up Raoul (my car), the man said he was going to take it to Jesse's auto and called Jesse to see if he was still at the shop. Jesse was not, he was at his parents house making sure that their house did not catch on fire.

This is when we found out the car would not even be looked at until the next day (Good Friday), so the tow truck man said he'd drop us off at the Super8 so we could get a room for the night. Needless to say, Nathaniel and I were a bit unsure as to what to do, we were not to keen on the idea of getting a room together. So we call Stefan and tell him the predicament and he says that he will get a car and bring another person down so that we will have a group of people to stay in the room and it wont be just Nathaniel and I.

So we get a 2 bed room and take our stuff there. As I was talking to the receptionist my mom calls my phone, without thinking I hand it to Nathaniel to answer. She knew we were having car problems and was looking for an update; poor Nathaniel had to tell my mom that a few other people were coming and we were getting a motel room. I felt bad after I realized what conversation he was having with my mom....how would you feel if you had to tell your girlfriend's mom that you and your girlfriend were getting a motel room?

Nathaniel and I put our stuff down and after I studied for Heils for a bit and he watched TV we walked to the Braum's next door for some food. By this time we have updated both of our parents and are waiting to hear from Stefan about the car, he isn't having much luck. We find out about 7:00pm that he cannot get a car. So Nathaniel and I are trapped in Perry, Oklahoma in a motel.

Both of us decided that after this weekend we would be able to withstand any and every awkward situation that arose. I mean, both of us had "getting a motel room with my girlfriend/boyfriend" on our list of things never to do. I studied my Heils at a table while he chilled with the TV.

When our parents found out it was just us; they understood. We were both relieved, we were not sure how our parents would respond, but they knew that there was not much else we could do. Rooms are expensive. It was awesome to see how much our parents trusted us. We both decided we have amazing parents who raised us extremely well.

The next morning Jesse's auto called letting me know that it was my clutch, they gave me an estimate and said that they had ordered the clutch and that the clutch would be in that afternoon. After talking to my dad and Kevin, who is my parents' friend from college who keeps an eye on me out here and makes sure my car works, they decided the price was as good as I'd get and I called Jesse's back and okayed them to work on the car. That is when I was informed of the possibility that my car would not be fixed until Monday.

We had to be out of the Hotel before 11:30am, the manager knew about our situation and allowed us to keep our stuff there for the day. We walked way out of the way to get in town only to discover that Perry does not have much in town. We ate lunch at a small pizza-hut and checked out what we decided was the smallest Walmart in the known universe. By the time we walked back to Braums (a little after 4) we decided that we had walked about 7 miles and were ready to find out what was going on. Round-about 5 we found out that the car was done. Let me simply say that we were quite overjoyed by this news.

We decided to continue on down to Houston, because at this point returning to campus would be quite a boring way to finish out Easter weekend. We made it to Houston around 1:30am and spent Saturday chilling with Kyle at Market Street, Schlotzsky's Deli, and the movie theater. He also made us YUMMY TACOS for dinner.

Sunday we got up for church, which was sweet. We went to Woodsedge Community Church and it had a lot of technology including lights and audios, but unlike the other churches I have been to with this equipment that church used these resources to enhance the worship time instead of be the center of attention during the worship. The sermon was not the typical Easter sermon; the pastor used the story of Paul on the road to Damascus and his conversion from Acts 9 explain how Christ rescued Paul as he rescued us by his death on the cross. It was refreshing and a good start to the Easter Day.

Kyle took us out for lunch to a local Mongolian Grill. Neither Nathaniel nor I had eaten at a Mongolian grill before and it was good fun and rather tasty. We decided that we are going to have to find one a little closer and go sometime.

We headed back at 12:13pm for a mostly uneventful trip filled with me studying for Heils and Nathaniel being like "your wipers suck, I cannot see." We tried fix that problem with the windshield wipers in my trunk....but that was an epic fail. 1st off I put them on the wrong side and second off the one started to fall off as we were going down the interstate. After we fixed them we discovered that they were probably more crappy then the other wipers....oh well we made it back safely. With full tummies thanks to Nathaniel who bought us dinner at The Cracker Barrel. Thanks Nathaniel, you are amazing. But Brooke is more amazing...discussion over.

oh dear, I think I'd better end this before Nathaniel accuses me of continuing the conversation that is apparently over. SO END OF STORY! GOOD BYE!

P.S. I said my Heils (which for those of you who don't know is the Bible story from creation to now told with a timeline you draw in 5 minutes before you begin) and I am happy because I did well.

Psalm 13: Brooke Gugel Version

Please read Psalm 13 before you read my version. If you don't have a bible in front of you google it! It is an awesome psalm. We used it tonight in Youth Ministry Seminar 1! I re-wrote it in a way I have never done...it has a little attitude, let me know your thoughts please.

Psalm 13

Hey God!? You up there?
Remember me here on earth?
Would you mind droppin' me a line
I haven't heard from you in a while?

Life has been miserable
It doesn't make sense
People here are jerks
My problems keep punching me in the face

Hey God!? Wont you listen to me?
I want to be happy again
I'm tired of being beaten down
Culture's about to declare victory over me
It has begun a beer bash to celebrate my defeat

But God. I know you've got this
you're taken care of me
So I think I'll throw my own party
one to glorify You

Spring Break!

Guess who I saw during spring break?

That is right, the most amazing Nicole EVER! meaning my best friends whom I missed so much! Obviously if I saw her that means I traveled home over Spring Break.

Last Friday I traveled with 3 other girls to Iowa (8 hours) and spent the night with my Gugel family (meaning a Gugel Aunt and Uncle). I felt hunky-dory until I got out of my car at midnight-thirty and walked in the house. I quickly felt lightheaded, hot/cold, and my eyes were burning. Needless to say I was running a pretty good fever. This ruined my plans to have lunch with my grandma and grandpa Gugel the next day. boo, I did however venture to String Town to pick up some more dried fruit and in expensive groceries. After lunch I traveled home (6.5 hours) by myself. It was not too horrible I took my ibuprofen every 4 hours and my mom called a few times and Nathaniel called twice to make sure I was feeling well enough to keep driving.

I spent the next 2-3 days running a fever and not having enough energy to do anything. Saturday after I got home I went to bed (10ish) I did not get up until 1pm the next day (do factor in the fact that I lost 2 hours of sleep, 1hr due to the time zone change and the other due to daylight savings). Still, I gathered enough energy to take a shower and I was wiped so I chilled on the couch until 8:30 and I went to bed again.

When I was finally feeling somewhat better I went shoping with my mom and grandma to purchase clothes for my new Applebee's job. Woot woot, it was a lot of fun and reminded me of old times when my mom, grandma, and I would shop on the days I did not have kindergarten (actually, the 3 of us often shop together, we just had our beginnings back then).

Later that day (Tuesday) I headed to Bluffton and got to spend about 24 hours catching up with my friends and updating them on life as they updated me on life. Good Times, sadly that portion went WAY to fast and I felt pretty thinly spread about. I did not even get to see several of my friends; I suppose that is the way life goes.
Wednesday after I left Bluffton I headed to Church where I observed the JYF (Junior Youth Fellowship) in their evening activities and then visited with the MYF (Mennonite Youth Fellowship) youth sponsors and my youth pastor for just a bit. Joshua Schafer and I went out for Pizza to catch up and have a few laughs and I headed home.

Thursday I did a bit of laundry, and prepared a bit of food for dinner. My wonderful sister and brother-in-law came over to eat. We played Mouse trap after the food and I think it is important to note that I WON! I think it had something to do with the fact that my game piece was a frog and everyone else was playing with mice; the name of the game is mouse trap NOT frog trap. : D

Friday I went with my grandma to her eye doctors appointment (she had cataract surgery the day before) and she got a great report. We then had a few hours to waste before my dentist appointment so we went to the mall to see if they had a Deb's so that I could purchase my dress for Jessica's wedding (they did not). We ended up sitting and watching people for 45 minutes or so; we actually had a lot of fun doing this. Commenting on the different people and who we thought was seriously into the shopping and who had come to the mall just to walk laps to get their exercise. THE DENTIST WAS WAY COOL! Probably because I am done with my invisiline now and he gave me the a-okay to wear my retainers only at night. YEAY!

Of course Nicole came home for the weekend and her, my parents, and I went to Nicole and My's favorite restaurant City Q Barbecue! With there amazing kettle brewed sweet tea! Nicole and I were completely happy!

Saturday I left home at 8 and picked up 2 girls in Lagrange Indiana and finished driving to Kalona, Iowa. I spent an hour with my grandma and grandpa before they went to IMS (Iowa Mennontie School) for a fundraising dinner. My cousins met at my aunt and uncles house for Pizza and good times. It was awesome to catch up with them and entertaining to have them pester me with questions about Nathaniel. Never the less, the night ended and I picked up 4 other girls Sunday morning for our drive back to Hesston, Kansas. My trunk was packed so ridiculously full; I actually jumped up and pushed down on the trunk to make sure that is was latched. The 3 girls in the back seat had a suitcase and some other small bags of theirs to hold for the trip. Needless to say, it was a cramped ride.

We made it and it was an adventure! All in all a memorably fun Spring Break to the not-so-Springy-in-fact-kind-of-chilly Ohio (yeah flooding in Ottawa that made me have to make up my own route to Bluffton). Good to be home on campus!

P.S. Over break/on the car ride today I was able to finally read Blue Like Jazz I will have to post my thoughts about the book soon.

Preping for Spring Break

I really do not have much to say, just wanted to drop a note to all of y'all who are amazing (aka, all of you).



Ashley, Nathaniel, and I went shopping the day after valentine's day for all of the amazing sales. I bought a big soft ladybug stuffed animal Nathaniel names Eh Steve who has become a great addition to my dorm room. Before we shopped we stopped at family video to drop off a rental and to our luck A little ceasers pizza was next door and the man was out on the streets getting people to stop in. Of course Ashley and I could not resist getting picture with him!

I have also dyed my hair since we have last spoken. It was Cinnaberry; however, the color did not change my hair to the drastic red color Natale and Ashley had hoped when they picked the color for me. That is okay, it was still loads of fun (and there is only a tint left in my hair).

Yesterday I went to Applebees for orientation. I have been hired as a hostess and have the joy of spending this next week from 4-5:30 everyday book training for the job. Originally I was going to have to come back from spring break early to have my orientation; however, my supervisor called Thursday and asked me to come in Saturday for training. Works for me! Now instead of coming back from spring break 2 days early my vehicle just needs to leave a few hours later than planed before!

Speaking of spring break. This Friday I am heading to Iowa and spending the night with my wonderful family, Saturday I will hang out with them for a while before I continue home. Ashley is caravaning home with me and then leaving her car at home. There are 7 of us girls heading home for spring break together and on the way back my Honda civic will be carrying 5 girls! For 8 of the 14 hours it will be just 4 of us because we are picking up (and dropping off) the other girl in Iowa. So fun! I am also done with my Invisiline Saturday so on Monday I head to the dentist to have my final horrah! Honestly, the dentist appointment is the reason I HAD to go home over spring break; seeing my family is just the icing on the cake. Oh, and seeing you Bluffton people! I am hoping to spend a day or two with y'all! by the by, do you think you could possible warm up Ohio for me? I am getting used to the warm weather of Kansas (okay, so maybe not this weekend because the weather has been below freezing the whole time, but before that and for the rest of this week it is/has been wonderfully warm).

I know this post has no point to it and I would like to make one; however, I just can't focus anymore too many jumpy thoughts...look a butterfly. haha.

OH WAIT! before I go, I want you to know that I have finished my second biblical inductive! This time it was over Joshua 7. Very interesting and educational, yet I am glad to have the time consuming inductive complete. Now to work on the Heilsgeschichte; the entire bible story memorized. I will recited it to one of my professors it will take approximately 45minutes to recite.

Hey there Hesston

Hesston has been amazing! I have a class called biblical literature and I have to write 2 inductives for it; I have spent over 20 hours working on the first inductive... too much time in the library, ew. Still, I am learned so much about Judges 9 and Abimelech. I have not gotten my grade yet on that inductive; however, I received the passage for my individual inductive today Joshua 7! Ding ding ding, round 2!

Other than that my youth ministry classes are amazing, and I really believe that the direction I am heading in is pleasing to God! In youth ministry seminar last Thursday I was in charge of devotions; I had met with Michele earlier that week to discuss what that job entailed and also to share about my "dreams" for the future. One of the ways that I had the other youth Min's interact was to give them each play-doh to form while we were discussing Psalm 138. That went over well, and was great fun to play with!

The night I purchased the play-doh (which now reads Clearance-doh thanks to Nathaniel and the stickers) Garrett, Nathaniel, and I played with it for an hour and a half in the Larks nest and Kendra Horst joined us to help us make the sweet frog shown on the box.











the amazing group made play-doh frog















Nathaniel with his Jason mask





As for things being out of the ordinary...well, I do a lot more random things here. There is the yummy doughnut shop called Druber's in Newton which does not open until midnight. My friends and I hit that place up quite a bit. I mean who wouldn't want fresh peanut butter, maple, pine cone, squid, octopus, long johns, cream filled, or muffins! YUM! Then there is Newels; a truck stop in Newton with yummy yummy cheese fries (that are deathly greasy) and a small is a plate full and smothered in cheese. More grease than I can handle, so I often share a plate. I have heard that their milkshakes, and biscuits and gravy are tasty as well; I have not tried those yet..hmm maybe I'll take a group of people there tonight. Newels is definitely a place that would be really weird in the daylight, or early evening. Movies are a frequent happening most nights, somewhere between 11 and 1 a movie is started with my friends down in the pit (the basement of Erb), or KC lounge (which is the place I prefer because even though it is a farther walk from my dorm it was much much cleaner). Last weekend I went thrift store shopping in Newton. There was a huge sale at the et cetra shop, $1 for a paper bag filled with everything we could fit! Some my friends and I bought the most hideous outfits we could and have plans to wear them out sometime.

Ashley at walmart




Last Friday I went to Applebee's to ask if they were hiring and get an application. I ended up have the first 2/3 of my interview done right then! This Thursday I had my last interview and was hired as a hostess! Unfortunately I do not start until March 14 because they are in the middle of orientation right now and will not have the next training session until March. This means I have to come back from my spring break 2 days early because of the orientation 9am-11am on Saturday. That week I will have "class" from 3:45ish-5:30ish and will also have to follow another host for 5 shifts to learn what to do; it'll be busy. Still, I am quite excited!

Not sure what else to fill you in on, OH wait! Maybe y'all would be interesting in knowing that today the weather is gorgeous! by that I mean the high is 71outside and I love it! It has snowed 2 times since I have been here, barely if even an inch both times and the snow was completely melted within 2 days! This is such a fun and warm winter! Kansas weather is very bi-polar; I remember one day when I was looking working on my inductive I looked out the windows and saw that it was completely sunny, 20 minutes later is was overcast, and in another 20 minutes it was completely sunny again! No joke! That happens all the time here (because of the wind), how fun! It is like the sky is ADD and keeps forgetting what it was going to be!

on that sunny note I will leave you all my warm thoughts to keep you warm! hugs!
God Bless

The book "UnChristian"

I just finished reading the book "UnChristian" by David Kinnaman, a researcher for and the president of The Barna Group. This nonfiction book takes a raw look at what people who do not practice the Christian faith think of the people who call themselves Christians. Their findings from 3 years of statistic and interview research reveal that most people who do not practice the Christian faith believe that Christians are very UnChristian. Words like Judgmental, too political, and Hypocritical describe the Christan's. While the book seems to be written for the generation above me (who may not be as aware of these and other perceptions), I was intrigued by the evidence and challenged even further to be a genuine Christian. Good book, I do recommend "UnChrisitan."

Finding the Good Life

“This is the good life I've lost everything I could ever want and ever dream of…” (Stuart 4). Audio Adrenaline, a Christian rock band, believes that the good life is losing everything a person could desire; Aristotle and Kant have alternate opinions as to what constitutes as a good life. Aristotle believes that virtues, especially the highest virtue of reason, and the end goal lead one to the good life. Living in a way that would make cooperation and harmony possible if all man kind lived the same way is Kant’s idea of a good life. It is under my personal contemplation that I wonder if the good life is actually a compilation of Audio Adrenaline, Aristotle, and Kant’s visions.

“Happiness, therefore, does not lie in amusement; it would, indeed, be strange if the end were amusement, and one were to take trouble and suffer hardship all one’s life in order to amuse oneself.” (Aristotle 1). Aristotle is stating that entertainment is not happiness, or the good life, if it were one would always take the easy way out of situations in order to reach a situation that would entertain him or her sooner. Any person can give in to his or her bodily pleasures, yet he or she will not find the good life and happiness within these pleasure “For happiness does not lie in such occupations, but, as we have said before, in virtuous activities” (Aristotle 1). He take virtues a step farther when he writes “That which is proper to each thing is by nature best and most pleasant for each thing; for man, therefore, the life according to reason is best and pleasantest, since reason more that anything else is man. This life there for is also the happiest” (Aristotle 1). Aristotle is saying that reason, or studying and contemplation, is the most desirable virtue; reason leads all rational people to the good life. Contemplation will lead a person to focus on the bigger picture, or the goal of his or her life, thus the person will see that happiness is not found in amusement but in the end goal. When a person comprehends that the good life is much more than the moment by moment experience he or she will be willing to take the harder road with hardships and suffering in order to reach the most desirable end. For he or she is acting with the highest virtue Aristotle believes there is, the virtue of reason.

“If everyone in the world would just live by X, Y, and Z everyone would live the good life.” This thought process could be said to reflect Kant’s Categorical Imperative which is “Act only according to that maxim by which you can at the same time will that it would become a universal law (Hauerwas 30). Kant is stating that if a person believes something should be followed by everyone he or she must follow that rule himself or herself. For example, if Bill believes that everyone would be closer to the good life if he or she assists the elderly in crossing the street, then he must help the elderly cross the street himself. Likewise is Jane believes that everyone would be happier if visited with his or her parents at least once a week, she must visit with her own parents at least once a week. While these may be petty examples they display Kant’s belief; a person’s actions should reflect what he or she believes is the way everyone should act. Kant believes that if all people lived ethically all people would live the good life because “ethics has characteristics that make cooperation possible between people with different “beliefs” or “backgrounds” (Hauerwas 30).

Combine Aristotle’s theory that virtues and reason lead to the good life with Kant’s theory that a person must live the way he or she believes others should live and my opinion will emerge. A person should live in accordance to the good and just virtues he or she believes all people should posses. Like Aristotle’s theory, not everything can be considered a virtue. A person obtains virtues by interacting with the right people in the right way and then practicing what he or she learns. Not all activities are virtuous, lying, for example, is not virtuous because it does not lead to happiness as its final end for human action as Aristotle states that the good life does. If one takes these virtues and applies them to Kant’s idea that one must act how he or she desires other to act and I believe the good life is even closer. If a person has virtuous but does not live in accordance to those virtues, what good are the virtues? Still, if a person practices his or her virtues in everyday life he or she will be closer to living the good life. It is my belief that one is not capable of living such a virtuous life without a reason. This reason, like Aristotle, is one that leads to happiness as the complete end of human action; a belief in God and God’s son Jesus leads one to desire a virtuous life. A virtuous life, which is a life lived in accordance to God’s desire, God’s desires are recorded in the bible and through Godly revelations, will end as it reads in John 3: 15-16 “That whoever believes in him [the Son of Man] may have eternal life. ‘For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life.” Audio Adrenaline says it this way in their song Good Life, “This is the good life, I've lost everything I could ever want and ever dream of. This is the good life I found everything I could ever need here in Your arms.” All that a person could desire outside of a virtuous life does not lead to happiness; instead the good life is found when one lives a virtuous life in accordance to God.

The good life, it is what most people desire, but how does one obtain the good life? Live a virtuous life of reason, focused on the final end of human action according to Aristotle. Kant believes that one should let his or her actions reveal the way that all people should live. Compile the two approaches to the good life adding the most important ingredient, God, and my approach is found. A person should live the virtuous life that God desires and allow his or her actions reveal the good life for all who desire the good life to witness and follow.



Bibliography
Aristotle. "From Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, Book Ten." Anabaptist Convictions after Marpeck. 26 Nov. 2008 .
Bechtel, Trevor. “Christian Ethics”. Bluffton, OH. November 2008.
Hauerwas, Stanley & Wells, Samuel. “Why Christian Ethics Was Invented”. The Blackwell Companion to Christian Ethics. Malden: Blackwell Publishing, 2006. 28-38.
Pinckaers, Servais. “Excerpts from the Nichomachean Ethics”. Sources of Christian Ethics. Washington: Catholic University of America, 1995. 106-109.
Stuart, Mark. "Good Life." By Mark Stuart, Will McGinniss, Bob Herdman and Charlie Peacock. Rec. 1999. By Audio Adrenaline. Underdog. Rec. 1999. ForeFront Records, 1999.
The HarperCollins Study Bible: New Revised Standard Version: With the Apocryphal/Deutercanonical Books. Ed. Wayne A. Meeks. Rev. ed. New York: HarperCollins Publishers, 2006.

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Writen for Biblical World View: Ethics: Professor Trevor Bechtel